Define "not working". The one and only function of a road is to support the wheels on top of it. Are you saying that there's regularly cars falling through the asphalt, or cars veering off the road when they meant to go straight ahead?
Your car is the traffic on that road. Every system has limited capacity, you loaded it beyond that point, you are the problem. The roads are designed for an advertised capacity and more people like you said "it's fine, we'll all jam in there and then blame the road". Then you complain and point fingers at anyone but yourself?
You were talking about reasons to be ashamed? How about that as a developer you don't understand system design and capacity/performance limits, and you don't understand that intentionally loading a system beyond its rated capacity is not the problem of the system. Even an LLM knows that.
I bet you only build systems with infinite capacity and performance.