Chances are, the content creator blacklisted you on his channel. That way your comments are shadow banned forever. You can type all you like, noone will see it.
how can be it instant , the moment i comment , it vanishes , but when i comment on someone else's comment on the same video it shows up and it is not deleted.
Ask your wife if she wants a miserable or a happy husband. I moved for my wife and I didn't regret it. She is willing to move for me too, if it ever comes to that.
But most IT jobs are remote now anyway. Look for those opportunities. Don't be scare.
What I have seen happen in the last year is the following:
1. Covid forced most people to work remotely, at least at tech companies.
2. The world didn't end for those companies, so now many more are amenable to remote workers.
3. Even the ones who aren't happy can't really force everyone to come back to the office, so they're still remote friendly.
I don't know how long this situation will last, but for now it's a good time to be a remote worker.
Or consider it a viable solution to the itch OP was trying to scratch with their own development.
It's easy to brush aside a monumental amount of effort and thought that gets poured into projects like these, marking them internally as fruitless, when
1) we're not the ones that spent the long nights and weekends obsessing over the nuances of the specific problem OP was trying to solve.
2) any of us on HN are usually here shit posting because we're avoiding putting in the same effort for our own projects.
that's true to an extent (it was nearly two decades :) and adds to my answer for the parent question: there has been a lot of mockery along the way during the interesting parts, as well as depression when things I was very passionate about (e.g. gosu) were ignored or failed
Apply on LinkedIn, get a job. Make sure you have a photo. We don't do the whole 'no photo on cv' thing here.
If you want a boost, check out the Finland IT program. They pretty much want a bunch of developers and IT people to move there, and it's an official govt. program. If you want, you can get citizenship in a couple years and become an EU citizen