The third slide is out of date. 1.30 removed support for promises. All previously promised-based functions now take a callback parameter as their last argument instead, so the slide would be written:
There are a series of articles on howtonode.org about flow control in node and cleaner ways to do this. Not mentioned on howtonode, but Kris Zyp also implemented a CommonJS promises library on the node callback pattern.
There are meant to be monthly meetups, but I don't think anyone has time to organise them. There hasn't been one since January. It'd be great if these started happening more regularly.