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Maybe you got married young because you both thought each other were sexually attractive in high school and you were young and stupid.

Turns out a year in you don’t have a lot in common.

Should you stay together and have kids together because you made a stupid decision based on sex?

Your partner doesn’t have to be a sociopath for someone to decide marriage was a mistake for both parties.




It's a guideline, for external use. It can apply as well to a second round.


A guideline where the correctness is unknown without details is a bad guideline.

For a guideline to be helpful it needs to be true in most circumstances.

“Remain married” can be actively harmful as much as it can be the right thing. That makes it useless as generic advice.




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