Let me elaborate it to you - you need to update your calendar. It is not 1980 anymore, it is 2022 and Ukraine is independent country who is willing to join EU and NATO. This is their choice and nobody has any say in this.
And you are right. This is an ideological question. A principal question. This is why we are backing Ukraine against aggressor in this illegal war.
Nope. It is more like 1972 than 2022. It doesn't matter what Ukraine wants. It doesn't matter, in the same sense that it didn't matter what Iraq wanted in 2003, or Serbia in 1998. We need to wake up in the West. And Ukraine needs to stop thinking like a teenager who's listening to his dangerous friend's cheap advice (the US). They are nobody's good friend.
And you are right. This is an ideological question. A principal question. This is why we are backing Ukraine against aggressor in this illegal war.