As someone who does not have a lot of sex, and is probably quite repressed:
I think that sex should be considered a bit like any other form of human conversation; it just so happens that it tends to involve different body parts.
Yes, consent is important, and violence isn't acceptable. But also you shouldn't put up with boring conversations if there is another community that you find more stimulating.
Equally, some spoken or written conversations can become irritable, aggressive or unwelcome. Perhaps we should place some focus on consent and good behaviour in those environments too before shutting down attempts to have better sexual conversations.
I think that sex should be considered a bit like any other form of human conversation; it just so happens that it tends to involve different body parts.
Yes, consent is important, and violence isn't acceptable. But also you shouldn't put up with boring conversations if there is another community that you find more stimulating.
Equally, some spoken or written conversations can become irritable, aggressive or unwelcome. Perhaps we should place some focus on consent and good behaviour in those environments too before shutting down attempts to have better sexual conversations.