Haven't seen these two so thought I'd add them to the list.
Minetest is a block building game engine (like minecraft) built around the idea mods add all content. There are a bunch of games built for it, and last I checked a active modding community.
https://www.minetest.net/
The other is AlephOne, a engine to play all the Marathon games (story FPS, pre-halo bungie made games) along with a bunch more community created ones. I've sunk a good bit of time into both the trilogy and the additional 6 big community made ones.
https://alephone.lhowon.org/
I played Minetest a lot with my kids too. We still have tons of those old maps from our co-op on various computers.
Now that they are playing other games, I still find that I occasionally log into Minetest servers just to look around at all the amazing builds.
In one of them I found a working MS Paint emulator (a wall with the icons and canvas on it), as well as a very impressive and huge ancient Greek temple.
Minetest is kinda crap, honestly. Unless it has radically changed since I played it, the game feel is just lightyears behind.
It has lots of mods and customization hooks, way more than Minecraft, and if that works for you that's great. But for a lot of people the experience just can't compare.
I think what you are looking for is the MineClone2 game for MineTest. It is basically a recreation of the Minecraft mobs, items, realms, etc in MineTest. I have played it a lot and it is great if you are looking for the MC experience!
Just in general, that there's a lot of stuff to do. I can make a base and slowly do various upgrades, try to finish the game as quickly as possible, or just fool around in creative mode.
myself i only play minetest on a public server without attacking mobs, so there is no hurry to build a base, and i can focus on building interesting stuff. i still have to get food, mine for materials and fix my tools so there is plenty to manage while building. and with other players on the server we can also build in collaboration.
my son likes to add mobs, so he is building and fighting mobs.
Minetest is a block building game engine (like minecraft) built around the idea mods add all content. There are a bunch of games built for it, and last I checked a active modding community. https://www.minetest.net/
The other is AlephOne, a engine to play all the Marathon games (story FPS, pre-halo bungie made games) along with a bunch more community created ones. I've sunk a good bit of time into both the trilogy and the additional 6 big community made ones. https://alephone.lhowon.org/