That is a joke. Sweden is 4th on that list. Despite the fact that the vast majority voted for anti-NATO parties, they just refused to have a referendum or wait until the election (in 90 days) to make a decision and explicitly stated they will not consult us. (No, polls aren't elections. Don't even start.)
This isn't exactly unique either. They regularly do things people don't want and can't stop. On top of that, we have powerful lobbyists and shittons of propaganda too, just like everyone else.