It's user friendly for people that don't know what patches are or why software needs updated. It's frustrating for the people that do and would like control

I remember the Windows XP days where you'd regularly find computers that hadn't successfully updated in months or years and it was a whole day effort to get them patched

Windows 10 Reboot Blocker works ok. It runs as a service and keeps readjusting active hours to prevent reboots