Why talking first? Well, for me:
P(attractive|interesting) >> P(interesting|attractive)
and by a few orders of magnitude (1000?). YMMV.
Texting or whatever is terrible. There's no way to convey sense of humor and text is rife with misunderstanding tone.
Why talking first? Well, for me:
P(attractive|interesting) >> P(interesting|attractive)
and by a few orders of magnitude (1000?). YMMV.