Honestly, if you're married and have kids, being out socially at 230am is irresponsible imo. Even if you're working late at the office, you have some uncomfortably higher odds of being taken out by a drink driver on the way home. Or robbed/killed at a gas station if you forgot you were low. This is stuff people knew and talked about not too long ago, but now we pretend it's not the case for some reason.