I'm from Eastern Europe and speak the language. But beyond that, I didn't say THAT part would be easy, but it's doable, especially if you stay there instead of bringing them to the US. Personally I think it would be easier than keeping the average American 28 yr old happy.
That explains the attitude, fellow Eastern European.
The point still stands, cultural and generational gap. You were born when USSR was still there (or maybe in USSR, if you’re unlucky), for Christ’s sake. Do you seriously think you can find any meaningful relationship with girl raised on Instagram and TikTok? As other comment pointed out - you’re not looking for a relationship, you’re looking for a trophy wife. Which is completely fine, but you need to be honest with yourself.
Also, if you think 28 age old can’t have 23 previous partners - you’re in deep trouble.
23 year old indeed might be too much of a difference IMO + there is a big gap of maturity between 23 and 28 years old, but 28 year old is totally fine in relation to his age (unless he behave and feels like a 50-60 year old). I was with around 10 years younger gf, she was very attractive and had many relationships before but couldn't connect with anyone as good as she did with me.
the reason he might be dating someone younger is not just for trophy but for things such as:
- younger woman for him is more attractive (doesn't mean it's just for trophy)
- 38+ woman have biological clock so they might be more desperate to get someone commit and have a kid fast
- if he date someone younger and after half a year they found out they both are not compatible then there is no guilt as much as when dating 38+ woman that wanna have a kid and you "wasted her half a year of maybe just 2 years left to have a healthy biological kid)
- might be for him easier to date younger divorced woman with kid (because many guys don't want to date those for long term), but that's not necessarily bad relation because she has a lot of experience.
