Java is the most widely used computer language because it's the lingua franca of the enterprise. That doesn't reflect the programming community's love — it reflects the approval of big business executives. Some programmers genuinely love Java, but I'm pretty sure it's a much smaller number. In the startup scene, where technical founders pick the stack, Ruby is actually more widely used. Take a look at the HN Jobs category (linked at the top of the page) and count the number of Ruby web dev listings, then count the Java web dev listings.
(Cheat sheet in case you didn't feel like counting: There are zero listings for server-side Java. The only Java listings are for Android.)
You can argue that it shouldn't be this way, but that is how it is. A lot of people hate Java. Rails' whole initial marketing campaign was essentially "Java sucks — we do everything opposite of them."
And you think HN is the horizon of entire programming world? Hope that is a self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe HN, Ruby is taking over the world - but in reality, Ruby use is going down (http://www.tiobe.com/index.php/content/paperinfo/tpci/index....). If you really want to know which language is gaining popularity fast - it is a pretty old language called Objective-C! Recheck the reality distortion field.
And about love - I have a family to love - programming languages are tools - hardly objects to love or hate.
You seem to be disagreeing very strongly with a bunch of things I didn't say. Let me clear up a few misconceptions:
1. I don't believe Ruby is taking over the world. Six years ago it was, but now it's fairly mature and stable. I do believe that Ruby is better-loved overall than Java. (Incidentally, you'll notice Java is dropping two orders of magnitude faster than Ruby on TIOBE's chart.)
2. I have been programming Objective-C since 2001 when OS X came out. I'm pretty familiar with it.
3. HN is not "the horizon of the entire programming world," but it is pretty well-embedded in the Silicon Valley startup scene, which is what I was discussing at the time. My point is this: Take a look at any area where passionate coders get to choose any technology stack they want and you will find Ruby is generally more popular than Java. If HN's job listing isn't convincing to you, let's take a look at another place where coders choose their own language — open source. On Github's ranking of most popular languages, Ruby is #2 and Java is #5.
4. I am not trying to convince you that you should love or hate any languages. I am saying that many people do, and their feelings towards these languages affect how they behave.
As a side note, I agree that programming languages are tools, but honestly, most artists and craftsmen I know do have favorite tools — a favorite violin, a favorite kind of film, etc. Heck, many people have a favorite chair. It's OK if you don't, but it's not that weird.
I would believe it on the basis that every programmer I've talked to, from a couple of years after Java was introduced, until today, didn't really like Java. Things became very complex very fast for the language that gave birth to FactoryFactoryPattern.
(Cheat sheet in case you didn't feel like counting: There are zero listings for server-side Java. The only Java listings are for Android.)
You can argue that it shouldn't be this way, but that is how it is. A lot of people hate Java. Rails' whole initial marketing campaign was essentially "Java sucks — we do everything opposite of them."