How do you know things wouldn’t be much much worse if there were no standards for being a civil/structural engineer or architect that have been refined over long periods of time? Imagine municipalities taking the lowest bids by far thrown out there by any rando that decided they can make a few bucks by welding together the supports for a bridge or designing a really interesting building that will just cave in on itself a decade hence.
Such delays are overwhelmingly political, not engineering. The local government demanding yet another environmental impact review is not an engineering cost - it is a scope change.
Tell me about all the on time and under budget civil/mechanical engineering projects that are happening.
Do you think that just because they have physics to lean on that they can just like press solve and have accurate estimates spit out?
Edit: I totally agree that more long-lived battle tested software toolchains and libraries would be great though