You didn't really address the value of charisma. You just vented against ladder climbing corporate engineers and insinuated you are mean in code reviews.
Charisma isn't lying or being sensitive, so you aren't opposed to it.
There's a whole section in this article called "Motivation" which tries to highlight the importance of soft skills in general for engineers. It doesn't begin with just charisma. Charsmia is just one part of the soft skills overview this series is going over it looks like
Charisma isn't lying or being sensitive, so you aren't opposed to it.