I think you should give me a credit for all the income I lost due to this outage. Who authorized a change to the core infrastructure during the period of the year when your customers make the most income? Seriously, this is a management failure at the highest levels of decision-making. We don't make any changes to our server infrastructure/stack during the busiest time of the year, and neither should you. If there were an alternative to Cloudflare, I'd leave your service and move my systems elsewhere.
I think you should get exactly what the contract you signed said you'd get. Outages happen in all infrasturture. Planned and unplanned ones both. The SLA and SLO are literal acknowledgements of the fact that and part of the contract for that reason.
Its fair to be upset at their decision making - use that to renegotiate your contract.
