As other kids say, two things can be true at the same time. And not lasting five minutes in a CoD lobby is going to be my new heuristic for picking friends. I don’t really need to know someone who isn’t bothered by that shit.
Not being able to handle banter isn't the type of trait I'd look for in a friend, but to each their own.
You may have luck looking for people in places like Bluesky and large reddit subs, as those typically host more of the mentally fragile/unstable people you need to walk on eggshells around.