I'll never understand how differences of opinion can make people so extreme. Child abuse is a serious issue and you have gone through some mental gymnastics to conflate child abuse with my decision to not vaccinate my 9, 10 or 11 year old child for HPV.

Delaying is an action with no upside whatsoever. It's a pure negative, imposed from a desire to force a decision that's not yours to make.

Is it big enough to warrant charges? No. Doesn't make it not abusive.